• Do you remember last week when your mind was criticizing you and asking you to play-it-safe?

Using Acceptance and Commitment Skills, you are always invited to bring awareness to your internal experiences, especially when you are feeling stuck in a habit or unhelpful behavioral patterns such as overthinking, procrastinating, or others.

You are also invited to figure out your values and take action toward what truly matters to you, especially when feeling emotional discomfort.

In this episode, Julian McNally, M. Psych. and I discuss those values-based actions when your mind tries to convince you to engage in old behavioral patterns.

Key Takeaways

• Creative Hopelessness
• Values-based behaviors
• Values-based exposures
• Notice approaching versus avoidant behaviors
• How to practice acceptance of messy moments
• Focus on your doing your best, not being the best
• Focusing on what is happening right now instead of the why

About Julian McNally

Julian McNally has practiced counseling psychology since 1995. He trained in client-centered and solution-oriented approaches before discovering Acceptance and Commitment Therapy in 2003. The mindfulness components of ACT harmonized with his long standing interest in Zen Buddhism and Taoism (Julian was a Tai Chi instructor for six years).

Shortly after reading Acceptance and Commitment Therapy by Hayes, Strosahl and Wilson, Julian started developing the world’s first online audio ACT training resource, 6 ACT Conversations through RMIT University (online at http://emedia.rmit.edu.au/communication/).

This resource has been utilized and cited by many ACT trainers, practitioners and their clients, and is featured in a chapter Julian co-authored in the New Harbinger book, Mindfulness and Acceptance for Counseling College Students. As well as seeing individuals for counseling, Julian also supervises other ACT practitioners in Melbourne, and throughout Australia and internationally (Google Meet, Skype, Zoom or phone) and is principal psychologist at Melbourne’s first ACT center, The ACT of Living.