Two crucial tips to distinguish effective safety behaviors – playing-it-safe moves – from ineffective ones

Thinking repetitively about future and past painful feelings, events and failures, Searching for certainty, predictability, & re-assurance

This is a super special interview with one of my favorite colleagues and author, Jonathan Kaplan, Ph.D., author of “Urban Mindfulness.”

Key Takeaways

In this conversation we discussed:

  • One of Jonathan’s favorite mindfulness exercises: sending warm wishes to people around you
  • Why playing-it-safe behaviors are natural
  • What is a playing-it-safe move
  • Two skills to distinguish effective playing-it-safe moves from ineffective ones
  • How to handle uncertainty
  • How to handle ruling-thoughts about thinking (metacognitions)

In the middle of the conversation, you will hear me practicing “how to say” one of my favorite words in English and one of Jonathan’s favorite jokes related to anxiety and playing-it-safe.

About Jonathan Kaplan, Ph.D.

In 1991, Jonathan earned a B.A. in Asian Studies (Japanese) from Tufts University.  After spending a few years working in law, he later earned both his M.A. and Ph.D. in clinical psychology from UCLA. He has also been active as a professor, writer, and clinical supervisor.

As a clinical psychologist, he specializes in: issues unique to New York City professionals, couples therapy, young adult informed therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, interpersonal psychotherapy, mindfulness and meditation, evidence-based treatments, and achieved Diplomate status in cognitive therapy.

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